9mm or .38? What's Your Pleasure?

We are discussing our personal property - who gets what. I'm about as excited to do this as I would be discussing which pistol I can use to shoot myself. With Mrs. Ray I am not a good negotiator. She wants me to take care of things I believe should be "hers", but I have a hard time dealing with. Not the usual stuff: how about a prefab fireplace she wanted, we bought but never installed (still in the box). $900 that I have tried to sell, but we still have. If I'm supposed to move, what do I do with this?