Goals Dialog

Today's dialog topic was "What goals would I like to see us achieve in the next few months?" We talked it over this morning, after breakfast. (Mrs. Ray and I are both teachers, so we're enjoying a day off.) In the next few months, Mrs. Ray needs to decide for herself whether she still has a husband or not, as she is planning to move out of state this summer. So, both of us, independently, stated the next goal should be whether our marriage is strong enough, that Mrs. Ray is comfortable enough to have me back at her side.

By now, both of us have committed to working things out, but Mrs. Ray still has her hand on the escape hatch. The only advice I have for her, bottom line, is to make any decision she can absolutely live with. (I think you readers know my position on this! So does Mrs. Ray!)

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I feel the big issues about getting Mrs. Ray to reconsider her marriage have reached a point it's almost a matter of time, as we share, dialog, discuss, and go to our counselor. I'm confident that our marriage is safe, though it ain't over till it's over.

I have a few more pieces to post on GlassGloves.com. That's where I write articles about "save my marriage" ideas that are worth sharing. There's also many other thoughts by the main blog host, Shohn.