Friday, February 2, 2007

Rediscovery

Retrouvaille – a French word for “rediscovery”. Mrs. Ray and I went for the weekend to a local hotel. Mrs. Ray was not really excited to go (She says she went because I insisted and pushed her to go. She did not want to make me too upset, and there should not be any harm in going, so she went.) During the whole weekend we were together nearly every second. We learned how to share some rather unpleasant feelings in a very good way. (It’s good to be comfortable with writing things down, but don’t let that stop you from going!)
Even after the weekend Mrs. Ray was really not excited about continuing with the follow-ups. However, we continued the method, called “Dialog” every night this week. We do feel better about communicating. My general recommendation for readers? If you need to find a way to better share feelings (good bad and ugly ones) with your loved one, give Retrouvaille some serious consideration!

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