Mrs. Ray has begun to insist that I leave town after the divorce is final. "This is a small town!"
Tell me something I don't know! And, when we are separate individuals again, I don't think I will need to even discuss my new address. From Day One, I have considered our divorce to be 100% Mrs. Ray's responsibility. Yes, I helped her move out, I helped her in may ways before, but then my overall goal was to keep on good terms, and keep honest communication open. (That part worked!)
I am really, deeply interested, even now, in maintaining and patching up our marriage, but I don't have that much energy left. I pray every day for God's intervention, but that's all I have left - prayer, hope and faith.
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Ray's and Mrs. Ray's journey through divorce. Mrs. Ray did not ask - she stated - we will get a divorce. She has spent over two years building up aggravation at the way I treat her. I am clueless, but her perception is her reality. I'm also doing my best to examine myself and to make myself acceptable to her. I just might be too late.
This is my chronicle of divorce
(Warning! Christian content will appear without warning!)
I absolutely do not want a divorce, but for reasons my wife states, she wants out. (no affair, abuse or other bad stuff like that). The real reasons may come out in the blog.
This blog is totally anonymous. OK, I used to live in California. Ray is the name I'm using on this blog, it's not my real name.
I absolutely do not want a divorce, but for reasons my wife states, she wants out. (no affair, abuse or other bad stuff like that). The real reasons may come out in the blog.
This blog is totally anonymous. OK, I used to live in California. Ray is the name I'm using on this blog, it's not my real name.
5 comments:
Hey, sorry to read these posts... I am going through a separation also. My wife has stated she loves me but she's not..." you know the rest. I guess this is MLC for her. She works out, gets spray tans, wears sexy lingere (not for me) and has passwords and locks on her laptop and cell phone. It is such a shame.
We have 4 kids, the youngest is 19 months old. As I read your posts I noticed some similarities in the women's behavior. My opinion is that a lot of these women who want out have somehow convinced themselves that they can find "the perfect man." We know that is not possible. Instead of trying to find a new person to love, couples need to learn to love the one they CHOSE.
Thank you for sharing your personal tragedy. I must say if you really want to save it before the papers are all signed, it is possible! I know I'm trying some strategies, some of which seem crazy! This guy has an ebook, I downloaded it for free actually (couldn't afford it). Some of the things he says to do are extreme but I have tried them and my wife has actually responded just like the guy said! If you want me to email the document to you let me know.......
Someone Who Loves His Wife In Cleveland
SORRY - forgot the link...
http://www.stopyourdivorce.com
Let me know if you want the document!
There are several "Save your marriage" people. They nearly all have some "secrets" book for $50. I found that most of them follow the same ideas as Dobson's "Love Must Be Tough" $10-$15.
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