Since Tuesday, Mrs. Ray has told me twice and specifically that she has made her decision (and it does not include me). Today in church, speaking of God's power over death, Pastor Jim described Ezekiel's experience in the Valley of Dry Bones. Calling Ezekiel to prophesy, the dead bones first became covered with flesh, then rose up alive. God showed Ezekiel that lack of hope is not a factor in God's plans.
Well, that's where I'm at. My marriage to Mrs. Ray is in this valley. There's nothing more I am able to do, though I will be speaking with my Wife tomorrow (Monday).
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Ray's and Mrs. Ray's journey through divorce. Mrs. Ray did not ask - she stated - we will get a divorce. She has spent over two years building up aggravation at the way I treat her. I am clueless, but her perception is her reality. I'm also doing my best to examine myself and to make myself acceptable to her. I just might be too late.
This is my chronicle of divorce
(Warning! Christian content will appear without warning!)
I absolutely do not want a divorce, but for reasons my wife states, she wants out. (no affair, abuse or other bad stuff like that). The real reasons may come out in the blog.
This blog is totally anonymous. OK, I used to live in California. Ray is the name I'm using on this blog, it's not my real name.
I absolutely do not want a divorce, but for reasons my wife states, she wants out. (no affair, abuse or other bad stuff like that). The real reasons may come out in the blog.
This blog is totally anonymous. OK, I used to live in California. Ray is the name I'm using on this blog, it's not my real name.
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- Bête noire *
- What's Next?
- Redefining the Situation
- Tick. Tick. Tick.
- (No title. You've seen it before.)
- Wicked Day
- Mystery Date?
- Aaaarrghhh! (In a good way)
- Going through the motions
- Faint Optimism
- Amazing (Race)
- Stirrings?
- Keeping on Keeping On
- Shutting it down
- Winding it up
- Retrouvaille Contact
- Venting it all
- Final Result
- That feeling again....
- Coasting
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2 comments:
Hi Ray, Why doesn't Mrs. Ray trust you? Is Trust (or the lack of it) your main issue? Trust is very hard to re-build, but it CAN happen. Mrs. Ray should remember that Trust like Love, is a decision.
If you have been untrustworthy, you must tell and continue to show her that you have changed. You may have to continue to show her until she feels safe, which may be a long, long time.
Still hoping and praying for the two of you. Did you call someone on your Weekend team? They sincerely want to help!
I love and honor Mrs. Ray. The trust issue has only come up in her mind. (I hate public finger pointing, hence you see little blame for Mrs. Ray here.) This disturust consists of the usual every-day omissions & forgetfulness, misunderstandings, and some decisions I've made (Link) she ultimately disagreed with. These small items have been blown out of proportion. For further details, if you feel they're warranted, contact me at the Retrouvaille contact email address.
Yes I called, and two Post couples stand ready to help "talk" us back together.
Thank you!
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