Although Mrs. Ray has said at least three times "That's it! I'm through", this time I think it will stick. (I'm waiting for the Miracle window to open.)
When do I give up? Yeah, me, the guy who wrote about personal limits in "What's Your Summit?" on Glass Gloves. We still have the nuts and bolts of separating everything. I'll have to sign some papers. Take off my ring one last time. We have been to counseling, used dialog daily (check out Retrouvaille.org), prayed separately and together. I still love Mrs. Ray. I still want to do whatever it takes. But maybe now I don't have what it takes, from Mrs. Ray's point of view.
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Ray's and Mrs. Ray's journey through divorce. Mrs. Ray did not ask - she stated - we will get a divorce. She has spent over two years building up aggravation at the way I treat her. I am clueless, but her perception is her reality. I'm also doing my best to examine myself and to make myself acceptable to her. I just might be too late.
This is my chronicle of divorce
(Warning! Christian content will appear without warning!)
I absolutely do not want a divorce, but for reasons my wife states, she wants out. (no affair, abuse or other bad stuff like that). The real reasons may come out in the blog.
This blog is totally anonymous. OK, I used to live in California. Ray is the name I'm using on this blog, it's not my real name.
I absolutely do not want a divorce, but for reasons my wife states, she wants out. (no affair, abuse or other bad stuff like that). The real reasons may come out in the blog.
This blog is totally anonymous. OK, I used to live in California. Ray is the name I'm using on this blog, it's not my real name.
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- Bête noire *
- What's Next?
- Redefining the Situation
- Tick. Tick. Tick.
- (No title. You've seen it before.)
- Wicked Day
- Mystery Date?
- Aaaarrghhh! (In a good way)
- Going through the motions
- Faint Optimism
- Amazing (Race)
- Stirrings?
- Keeping on Keeping On
- Shutting it down
- Winding it up
- Retrouvaille Contact
- Venting it all
- Final Result
- That feeling again....
- Coasting
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2 comments:
Dear Ray: I have written you before. My husband and I are Retrouvaille Weekend presenters, on the other side of the country from you--which doesn't make us special at all--just that we've seen and heard a lot of marriage misery.Including our own...
Call someone on your Weekend team, today. Ask for help. Yes, I know it's the day before Easter. Call them anyway. I'll glady eat a shoe if they won't respond. Ask them to call Mrs. Ray.
Do NOT give up yet! Hang on tight and pray. Lean on your Retrovaille family. When they told you they care about you, they meant it. You'd be amazed how big and strong this family is!
We're praying for you both.
Retro - Thanks for our support. As a matter of fact, I had done that. (Nibble a shoelace - I called four different couples on Wednesday, one called back Friday, and one Saturday. In my phone message, I just wanted to ask about Dialog questions, not any emergency)
Saturday PM: Mrs. will not speak to any of them. I asked.
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